Former Spy: If You're Easily Offended, You're Easily Manipulated! Psychological Trick That Makes People Respect You! This 1 Trick Catches A Lie In Seconds!
The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
She was trained to read minds, spot lies, and face danger - here's what former Secret Service Agent Evy Poumpouras learned from protecting the world's most powerful leaders
Evy Poumpouras is a former Special Agent with the U.S. Secret Service. She is the author of the bestselling book, Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, Live Fearlessly and co-host of Bravo's TV competition series Spy Games.
In this conversation, Evy and Steven discuss topics such as, the dangers of getting easily offended, why you should stop asking people's opinions, the top body language mistake that makes you look weak, and Evy's 'I'm not special' hack for success.
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- Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, Live Fearlessly
- Watch episodes on YouTube
- The 33 Laws Of Business & Life
- The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition
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<p>She was trained to read minds, spot lies, and face danger - here’s what former Secret Service Agent Evy Poumpouras learned from protecting the world’s most powerful leaders</p><p><br></p><p>Evy Poumpouras is a former Special Agent with the U.S. Secret Service. She is the author of the bestselling book, ‘Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, Live Fearlessly’ and co-host of Bravo’s TV competition series ‘Spy Games’. </p><p><br></p><p>In this conversation, Evy and Steven discuss topics such as, the dangers of getting easily offended, why you should stop asking people’s opinions, the top body language mistake that makes you look weak, and Evy’s ‘I’m not special’ hack for success. </p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Intro</p><p>02:13 What Is Evy Doing for People?</p><p>03:42 What Do People Come to Evy For?</p><p>04:05 People Sabotage Themselves</p><p>05:38 Lie Detecting</p><p>07:01 How Do We Start to Become Mentally Strong?</p><p>09:31 The People You Associate With Can Impact You</p><p>12:35 Observe Your Opponent, Don't Listen to Them</p><p>16:22 How Does Steven Pick People?</p><p>22:11 Living Fearlessly</p><p>24:29 Making Decisions Will Increase Your Confidence</p><p>28:42 How to Stop Others From Controlling Your Life</p><p>34:56 Making Decisions</p><p>37:01 How to Make Progress in Your Life or Career</p><p>40:12 Reliving Your Pains Makes You Feel High</p><p>43:25 Sexism in the Secret Service</p><p>52:05 How to Make Rational Decisions</p><p>57:08 What to Do When People Are Not Treating You Well</p><p>01:02:00 Being Bullied in a Work Environment</p><p>01:08:14 What I Learned About Bullies as a Secret Agent</p><p>01:12:59 How to Stop Being Prey for a Predator</p><p>01:20:44 Can Someone's Life Be Determined by the Way They Speak?</p><p>01:22:34 Ads</p><p>01:23:33 The Importance of Gesticulating With Your Hands</p><p>01:28:08 Can You Fake Your Body Language?</p><p>01:36:28 What's Step 1 to Becoming That Person When I'm Not?</p><p>01:42:15 Do You Have to Go Through Difficult Times to Learn?</p><p>01:47:11 The Hack of Knowing You're Not Special or the Only One</p><p>02:00:59 Ads</p><p>02:03:02 People Don't Want to Be Victims Anymore</p><p>02:07:52 Should We Make People Like Us?</p><p>02:09:43 The Importance of Being Authentic</p><p>02:11:50 Why Rejection Is the Way to Resilience</p><p>02:14:19 The Four Communication Styles</p><p>02:25:31 Emotion in the Police Workforce</p><p>02:27:40 Switching Styles During Interviews</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Evy: </p><p>Instagram - <a href="https://bit.ly/4gU6Pxo">https://bit.ly/4gU6Pxo</a> </p><p>Twitter - <a href="https://bit.ly/4hJDgzW">https://bit.ly/4hJDgzW</a> </p><p>Website - <a href="https://bit.ly/4hHHQia">https://bit.ly/4hHHQia</a> </p><p>YouTube - <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@evypoumpourasofficial">https://www.youtube.com/@evypoumpourasofficial</a></p><p>Evy’s BBC Maestro Course - <a href="https://bit.ly/43dx1zZ">https://bit.ly/43dx1zZ</a> </p><p><br></p><p>You can purchase Evy’s book, ‘Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, Live Fearlessly’, here: <a href="https://amzn.to/4gMEv09">https://amzn.to/4gMEv09</a> </p><p><br></p><p>Evy’s BBC Maestro Course - <a href="https://bit.ly/43dx1zZ">https://bit.ly/43dx1zZ</a></p><p><br></p><p>Watch the episodes on Youtube - <a href="https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes">https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes</a> </p><p><br></p><p>My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - <a href="https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook">https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook</a> </p><p><br></p><p>You can purchase the The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition, here: <a href="https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb">https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb</a> </p><p><br></p><p>Follow me:</p><p><a href="https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb">https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb</a></p><p><br></p><p>Sponsors:</p><p><strong>Linkedin Jobs -</strong> <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/doac">https://www.linkedin.com/doac</a></p><p><strong>PerfectTed -</strong> <a href="https://www.perfectted.com/">https://www.perfectted.com</a> with code DIARY40 for 40% off</p><p><strong>Vanta -</strong> <a href="https://vanta.com/steven">https://vanta.com/steven</a></p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>
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She was trained to read minds, spot lies, and face danger - here's what former Secret Service Agent Evy Poumpouras learned from protecting the world's most powerful leaders
Evy Poumpouras is a former Special Agent with the U.S. Secret Service. She is the author of the bestselling book, Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, Live Fearlessly and co-host of Bravo's TV competition series Spy Games.
In this conversation, Evy and Steven discuss topics such as, the dangers of getting easily offended, why you should stop asking people's opinions, the top body language mistake that makes you look weak, and Evy's 'I'm not special' hack for success.
Follow Evy
Books & Resources
- Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, Live Fearlessly
- Watch episodes on YouTube
- The 33 Laws Of Business & Life
- The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition
Follow Steven
Raw Description
<p>She was trained to read minds, spot lies, and face danger - here’s what former Secret Service Agent Evy Poumpouras learned from protecting the world’s most powerful leaders</p><p><br></p><p>Evy Poumpouras is a former Special Agent with the U.S. Secret Service. She is the author of the bestselling book, ‘Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, Live Fearlessly’ and co-host of Bravo’s TV competition series ‘Spy Games’. </p><p><br></p><p>In this conversation, Evy and Steven discuss topics such as, the dangers of getting easily offended, why you should stop asking people’s opinions, the top body language mistake that makes you look weak, and Evy’s ‘I’m not special’ hack for success. </p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Intro</p><p>02:13 What Is Evy Doing for People?</p><p>03:42 What Do People Come to Evy For?</p><p>04:05 People Sabotage Themselves</p><p>05:38 Lie Detecting</p><p>07:01 How Do We Start to Become Mentally Strong?</p><p>09:31 The People You Associate With Can Impact You</p><p>12:35 Observe Your Opponent, Don't Listen to Them</p><p>16:22 How Does Steven Pick People?</p><p>22:11 Living Fearlessly</p><p>24:29 Making Decisions Will Increase Your Confidence</p><p>28:42 How to Stop Others From Controlling Your Life</p><p>34:56 Making Decisions</p><p>37:01 How to Make Progress in Your Life or Career</p><p>40:12 Reliving Your Pains Makes You Feel High</p><p>43:25 Sexism in the Secret Service</p><p>52:05 How to Make Rational Decisions</p><p>57:08 What to Do When People Are Not Treating You Well</p><p>01:02:00 Being Bullied in a Work Environment</p><p>01:08:14 What I Learned About Bullies as a Secret Agent</p><p>01:12:59 How to Stop Being Prey for a Predator</p><p>01:20:44 Can Someone's Life Be Determined by the Way They Speak?</p><p>01:22:34 Ads</p><p>01:23:33 The Importance of Gesticulating With Your Hands</p><p>01:28:08 Can You Fake Your Body Language?</p><p>01:36:28 What's Step 1 to Becoming That Person When I'm Not?</p><p>01:42:15 Do You Have to Go Through Difficult Times to Learn?</p><p>01:47:11 The Hack of Knowing You're Not Special or the Only One</p><p>02:00:59 Ads</p><p>02:03:02 People Don't Want to Be Victims Anymore</p><p>02:07:52 Should We Make People Like Us?</p><p>02:09:43 The Importance of Being Authentic</p><p>02:11:50 Why Rejection Is the Way to Resilience</p><p>02:14:19 The Four Communication Styles</p><p>02:25:31 Emotion in the Police Workforce</p><p>02:27:40 Switching Styles During Interviews</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Evy: </p><p>Instagram - <a href="https://bit.ly/4gU6Pxo">https://bit.ly/4gU6Pxo</a> </p><p>Twitter - <a href="https://bit.ly/4hJDgzW">https://bit.ly/4hJDgzW</a> </p><p>Website - <a href="https://bit.ly/4hHHQia">https://bit.ly/4hHHQia</a> </p><p>YouTube - <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@evypoumpourasofficial">https://www.youtube.com/@evypoumpourasofficial</a></p><p>Evy’s BBC Maestro Course - <a href="https://bit.ly/43dx1zZ">https://bit.ly/43dx1zZ</a> </p><p><br></p><p>You can purchase Evy’s book, ‘Becoming Bulletproof: Protect Yourself, Read People, Influence Situations, Live Fearlessly’, here: <a href="https://amzn.to/4gMEv09">https://amzn.to/4gMEv09</a> </p><p><br></p><p>Evy’s BBC Maestro Course - <a href="https://bit.ly/43dx1zZ">https://bit.ly/43dx1zZ</a></p><p><br></p><p>Watch the episodes on Youtube - <a href="https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes">https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes</a> </p><p><br></p><p>My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - <a href="https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook">https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook</a> </p><p><br></p><p>You can purchase the The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition, here: <a href="https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb">https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb</a> </p><p><br></p><p>Follow me:</p><p><a href="https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb">https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb</a></p><p><br></p><p>Sponsors:</p><p><strong>Linkedin Jobs -</strong> <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/doac">https://www.linkedin.com/doac</a></p><p><strong>PerfectTed -</strong> <a href="https://www.perfectted.com/">https://www.perfectted.com</a> with code DIARY40 for 40% off</p><p><strong>Vanta -</strong> <a href="https://vanta.com/steven">https://vanta.com/steven</a></p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>