Secret Service Agent: Never Label Someone A Narcissist! This Habit Makes People Hate Talking To You!

<p class="text-node">Ex-Secret Service interrogator DESMOND O’NEILL reveals the 4-step formula for difficult conversations, how to decode narcissism, the secret to communication and real connection - AND debunks the biggest myths about interrogation!</p><p class="text-node"><br>Desmond O’Neill is a former special agent for the US Secret Service with over 30 years of experience in negotiation and interrogation. He has worked for the High-Value Detainee Interrogation Group (HIG) training and conducting research on interrogation, and is a co-instructor for the online platform ‘Beyond Bulletproof’, covering influence, communication, and confidence.<br></p><p class="text-node">He explains:</p><p class="text-node">◼️Why you should never label someone a narcissist</p><p class="text-node">◼️The No.1 habit silently ruining your communication</p><p class="text-node">◼️Why “me me me” syndrome is sabotaging your relationships</p><p class="text-node">◼️How gaslighting really works, and how to shut it down fast</p><p class="text-node">◼️Why your brain lies to you when emotions take over</p><p class="text-node"></p><p class="text-node"><strong>00:00 Intro</strong><br><strong>04:48 What Are Your Experiences?</strong><br><strong>06:23 Experience With Violent Interrogation</strong><br><strong>08:34 How Do I Have a Difficult Conversation?</strong><br><strong>09:58 How to Spot When Someone Is Gaslighting You</strong><br><strong>11:19 PLAN Framework</strong><br><strong>14:58 The Hardest Conversations You've Had to Navigate</strong><br><strong>19:40 If They Do This, They're Lying</strong><br><strong>21:52 Be a Better Listener</strong><br><strong>24:08 Controlling Comes From Listening, Not Talking</strong><br><strong>24:33 Asking Questions</strong><br><strong>28:38 Obvious Body Language to Look Out For</strong><br><strong>31:28 Finding Resolution With People</strong><br><strong>33:38 What if They Start Insulting You</strong><br><strong>35:31 How to Keep Your Emotions in Check</strong><br><strong>37:07 How to Stay in Control</strong><br><strong>40:11 Me Me Me Syndrome</strong><br><strong>43:06 Ads</strong><br><strong>44:08 How to Get Someone to Open Up</strong><br><strong>46:30 The Difference Between Manipulation and Influence</strong><br><strong>48:49 Influencing People</strong><br><strong>51:27 How to Build Trust</strong><br><strong>55:03 How Do You Get Trust Back?</strong><br><strong>55:27 How to Be a Great Leader</strong><br><strong>56:36 Making Decisions</strong><br><strong>1:01:02 Own Your Decisions</strong><br><strong>1:05:29 Ads</strong><br><strong>1:07:39 Building Rapport</strong><br><strong>1:11:47 Main Takeaways</strong><br><strong>1:13:33 Don't Tell People You Understand</strong><br><strong>1:17:14 What Decision Do You Most Regret?</strong></p><p class="text-node"></p><p class="text-node">You can learn more about ‘Beyond Bulletproof’, here: <a class="link" href="https://bit.ly/43SKyMW" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://bit.ly/43SKyMW</a>&nbsp;</p><p class="text-node"></p><p class="text-node">The Diary Of A CEO:</p><p class="text-node">◼️Join DOAC circle here - <a class="link" href="https://doaccircle.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://doaccircle.com/</a>&nbsp;</p><p class="text-node">◼️Buy The Diary Of A CEO book here - <a class="link" href="https://smarturl.it/DOACbook" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://smarturl.it/DOACbook</a>&nbsp;</p><p class="text-node">◼️The 1% Diary is back - limited time only: <a class="link" href="https://bit.ly/3YFbJbt" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://bit.ly/3YFbJbt</a>&nbsp;</p><p class="text-node">◼️The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards (Second Edition): <a class="link" href="https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb</a>&nbsp;</p><p class="text-node">◼️Get email updates - <a class="link" href="https://bit.ly/diary-of-a-ceo-yt" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://bit.ly/diary-of-a-ceo-yt</a>&nbsp;</p><p class="text-node">◼️Follow Steven - <a class="link" href="https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb</a>&nbsp;</p><p class="text-node"><br>Sponsors:</p><p class="text-node">Adobe - <a class="link" href="https://adobe.ly/OneBetter" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://Adobe.Ly/OneBetter</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p class="text-node">Rubrik: To learn more, head to <a class="link" href="https://rubrik.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://rubrik.com</a>&nbsp;</p><p class="text-node">Function Health: <a class="link" href="https://functionhealth.com/DOAC" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://Functionhealth.com/DOAC</a> to sign up for $365 a year. One dollar a day for your health.</p>