The Narcissism Doctor: "1 In 6 People Are Narcissists!", "Are Narcissists Better In Bed?", "Can A Narcissist Change? - Dr. Ramani Durvasula
The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett
1 in 6 people are narcissists, so what is a narcissist and how can you spot one?
Dr Ramani Durvasula is a clinical psychologist, Professor of Psychology at California State University, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is also the author of books such as ‘Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist’, and ‘"Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility’.
In this conversation Dr. Ramani and Steven discuss topics such as, whether your partner is a narcissist, the 4 types of narcissist, why up to 50% of famous people are narcissists, and whether narcissists are better in bed.
- (00:00) Intro
- (02:08) Why Dedicating Your Life To Studying Narcissism
- (03:10) The Cost Of Narcissism
- (06:07) How To Spot A Narcissist
- (12:27) How To Differentiate An Asshole From A Narcissist
- (15:19) Can You Cure Narcissism?
- (16:39) What Gender Tends To Be More Narcissistic
- (18:24) The Types Of Narcissism
- (25:07) How Many People Are Narcissists?
- (27:21) Is Social Media Fuelling More Narcissists
- (32:09) Where Does Narcissism Come From Genetics Environment
- (36:06) Narcissism Lives In A Spectrum
- (37:08) Are Narcissists More Successful
- (40:12) The Empathic CEOs Are Rare
- (43:04) Does Money Make You More Narcissistic?
- (47:03) How Do You Know If You Are A Narcissist
- (50:19) What People Get Attracted To Narcissist?
- (53:41) How To Know If My Partner Is A Narcissist
- (55:32) The Three Rs: How To Know If You're In A Negative Relationship
- (59:28) Pathological Manipulation
- (01:00:56) What's Projection?
- (01:04:20) Can They Take Feedback
- (01:05:55) Gaslighting, What Is It?
- (01:10:49) How To Deal With Being Gaslit
- (01:13:10) Do Narcissists Engage In Domestic Behaviour
- (01:15:17) What Should I Do If My Boss Is A Narcissist
- (01:17:31) Can You Get Out From A Narcissistic Person
- (01:21:32) Can You Be Happy In A Relationship With A Narcissist
- (01:23:08) What Is The Weak Point Of A Narcissist
- (01:24:44) Why Don't They Like Authentic People
- (01:25:51) Famous Narcissists
- (01:31:55) You Can Come Back From Narcissistic Abuse
- (01:34:04) Hardest Day Of Your Life
You can order Dr Ramani’s most recent book, ‘It's Not You: How to Identify and Heal from NARCISSISTIC People’, here: amzn.to/42YI79K
Follow Dr Ramani
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<p>1 in 6 people are narcissists, so what is a narcissist and how can you spot one?</p><p><br></p><p>Dr Ramani Durvasula is a clinical psychologist, Professor of Psychology at California State University, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is also the author of books such as ‘Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist’, and ‘"Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility’.</p><p><br></p><p>In this conversation Dr. Ramani and Steven discuss topics such as, whether your partner is a narcissist, the 4 types of narcissist, why up to 50% of famous people are narcissists, and whether narcissists are better in bed.</p><p><br></p><p>(00:00) Intro</p><p>(02:08) Why Dedicating Your Life To Studying Narcissism</p><p>(03:10) The Cost Of Narcissism</p><p>(06:07) How To Spot A Narcissist</p><p>(12:27) How To Differentiate An Asshole From A Narcissist</p><p>(15:19) Can You Cure Narcissism?</p><p>(16:39) What Gender Tends To Be More Narcissistic</p><p>(18:24) The Types Of Narcissism</p><p>(25:07) How Many People Are Narcissists?</p><p>(27:21) Is Social Media Fuelling More Narcissists</p><p>(32:09) Where Does Narcissism Come From Genetics Environment</p><p>(36:06) Narcissism Lives In A Spectrum</p><p>(37:08) Are Narcissists More Successful</p><p>(40:12) The Empathic CEOs Are Rare</p><p>(43:04) Does Money Make You More Narcissistic?</p><p>(47:03) How Do You Know If You Are A Narcissist</p><p>(50:19) What People Get Attracted To Narcissist?</p><p>(53:41) How To Know If My Partner Is A Narcissist</p><p>(55:32) The Three Rs: How To Know If You're In A Negative Relationship</p><p>(59:28) Pathological Manipulation</p><p>(01:00:56) What's Projection?</p><p>(01:04:20) Can They Take Feedback</p><p>(01:05:55) Gaslighting, What Is It?</p><p>(01:10:49) How To Deal With Being Gaslit</p><p>(01:13:10) Do Narcissists Engage In Domestic Behaviour</p><p>(01:15:17) What Should I Do If My Boss Is A Narcissist</p><p>(01:17:31) Can You Get Out From A Narcissistic Person</p><p>(01:21:32) Can You Be Happy In A Relationship With A Narcissist</p><p>(01:23:08) What Is The Weak Point Of A Narcissist</p><p>(01:24:44) Why Don't They Like Authentic People</p><p>(01:25:51) Famous Narcissists</p><p>(01:31:55) You Can Come Back From Narcissistic Abuse</p><p>(01:34:04) Hardest Day Of Your Life</p><p><br></p><p>You can order Dr Ramani’s most recent book, ‘It's Not You: How to Identify and Heal from NARCISSISTIC People’, here: <a href="https://amzn.to/42YI79K">https://amzn.to/42YI79K</a></p><p><br></p><p>Follow Dr Ramani</p><p>Twitter - <a href="https://bit.ly/3wF91ra">https://bit.ly/3wF91ra</a></p><p>Instagram - <a href="https://bit.ly/48A634K">https://bit.ly/48A634K</a></p><p><br></p><p>Watch the episodes on Youtube - <a href="https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb">https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb</a></p><p><br></p><p>Follow me:</p><p><a href="https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo">https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo</a></p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>
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1 in 6 people are narcissists, so what is a narcissist and how can you spot one?
Dr Ramani Durvasula is a clinical psychologist, Professor of Psychology at California State University, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is also the author of books such as ‘Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist’, and ‘"Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility’.
In this conversation Dr. Ramani and Steven discuss topics such as, whether your partner is a narcissist, the 4 types of narcissist, why up to 50% of famous people are narcissists, and whether narcissists are better in bed.
- (00:00) Intro
- (02:08) Why Dedicating Your Life To Studying Narcissism
- (03:10) The Cost Of Narcissism
- (06:07) How To Spot A Narcissist
- (12:27) How To Differentiate An Asshole From A Narcissist
- (15:19) Can You Cure Narcissism?
- (16:39) What Gender Tends To Be More Narcissistic
- (18:24) The Types Of Narcissism
- (25:07) How Many People Are Narcissists?
- (27:21) Is Social Media Fuelling More Narcissists
- (32:09) Where Does Narcissism Come From Genetics Environment
- (36:06) Narcissism Lives In A Spectrum
- (37:08) Are Narcissists More Successful
- (40:12) The Empathic CEOs Are Rare
- (43:04) Does Money Make You More Narcissistic?
- (47:03) How Do You Know If You Are A Narcissist
- (50:19) What People Get Attracted To Narcissist?
- (53:41) How To Know If My Partner Is A Narcissist
- (55:32) The Three Rs: How To Know If You're In A Negative Relationship
- (59:28) Pathological Manipulation
- (01:00:56) What's Projection?
- (01:04:20) Can They Take Feedback
- (01:05:55) Gaslighting, What Is It?
- (01:10:49) How To Deal With Being Gaslit
- (01:13:10) Do Narcissists Engage In Domestic Behaviour
- (01:15:17) What Should I Do If My Boss Is A Narcissist
- (01:17:31) Can You Get Out From A Narcissistic Person
- (01:21:32) Can You Be Happy In A Relationship With A Narcissist
- (01:23:08) What Is The Weak Point Of A Narcissist
- (01:24:44) Why Don't They Like Authentic People
- (01:25:51) Famous Narcissists
- (01:31:55) You Can Come Back From Narcissistic Abuse
- (01:34:04) Hardest Day Of Your Life
You can order Dr Ramani’s most recent book, ‘It's Not You: How to Identify and Heal from NARCISSISTIC People’, here: amzn.to/42YI79K
Follow Dr Ramani
Twitter - bit.ly/3wF91ra
Instagram - bit.ly/48A634K
Watch the episodes on Youtube - g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb
Follow me:
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Raw Description
<p>1 in 6 people are narcissists, so what is a narcissist and how can you spot one?</p><p><br></p><p>Dr Ramani Durvasula is a clinical psychologist, Professor of Psychology at California State University, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is also the author of books such as ‘Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist’, and ‘"Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility’.</p><p><br></p><p>In this conversation Dr. Ramani and Steven discuss topics such as, whether your partner is a narcissist, the 4 types of narcissist, why up to 50% of famous people are narcissists, and whether narcissists are better in bed.</p><p><br></p><p>(00:00) Intro</p><p>(02:08) Why Dedicating Your Life To Studying Narcissism</p><p>(03:10) The Cost Of Narcissism</p><p>(06:07) How To Spot A Narcissist</p><p>(12:27) How To Differentiate An Asshole From A Narcissist</p><p>(15:19) Can You Cure Narcissism?</p><p>(16:39) What Gender Tends To Be More Narcissistic</p><p>(18:24) The Types Of Narcissism</p><p>(25:07) How Many People Are Narcissists?</p><p>(27:21) Is Social Media Fuelling More Narcissists</p><p>(32:09) Where Does Narcissism Come From Genetics Environment</p><p>(36:06) Narcissism Lives In A Spectrum</p><p>(37:08) Are Narcissists More Successful</p><p>(40:12) The Empathic CEOs Are Rare</p><p>(43:04) Does Money Make You More Narcissistic?</p><p>(47:03) How Do You Know If You Are A Narcissist</p><p>(50:19) What People Get Attracted To Narcissist?</p><p>(53:41) How To Know If My Partner Is A Narcissist</p><p>(55:32) The Three Rs: How To Know If You're In A Negative Relationship</p><p>(59:28) Pathological Manipulation</p><p>(01:00:56) What's Projection?</p><p>(01:04:20) Can They Take Feedback</p><p>(01:05:55) Gaslighting, What Is It?</p><p>(01:10:49) How To Deal With Being Gaslit</p><p>(01:13:10) Do Narcissists Engage In Domestic Behaviour</p><p>(01:15:17) What Should I Do If My Boss Is A Narcissist</p><p>(01:17:31) Can You Get Out From A Narcissistic Person</p><p>(01:21:32) Can You Be Happy In A Relationship With A Narcissist</p><p>(01:23:08) What Is The Weak Point Of A Narcissist</p><p>(01:24:44) Why Don't They Like Authentic People</p><p>(01:25:51) Famous Narcissists</p><p>(01:31:55) You Can Come Back From Narcissistic Abuse</p><p>(01:34:04) Hardest Day Of Your Life</p><p><br></p><p>You can order Dr Ramani’s most recent book, ‘It's Not You: How to Identify and Heal from NARCISSISTIC People’, here: <a href="https://amzn.to/42YI79K">https://amzn.to/42YI79K</a></p><p><br></p><p>Follow Dr Ramani</p><p>Twitter - <a href="https://bit.ly/3wF91ra">https://bit.ly/3wF91ra</a></p><p>Instagram - <a href="https://bit.ly/48A634K">https://bit.ly/48A634K</a></p><p><br></p><p>Watch the episodes on Youtube - <a href="https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb">https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb</a></p><p><br></p><p>Follow me:</p><p><a href="https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo">https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo</a></p><p> </p><p>Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a></p>