Confidence Classic: Finding Gratitude In Your Hardest Moments With "Gratitude Guru" Chris Schembra
Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
You've heard people say "just be grateful" a million times, but what happens when life is falling apart, you're in real pain, and that kind of gratitude feels fake? In this episode, I sit down with USA Today's "Gratitude Guru" Chris Schembra to talk about a completely different and honest approach to gratitude, one that doesn't ignore your hardest moments, but starts with them. Chris shares how producing hit campaigns, dining with world-class leaders, and hosting intimate, high-end dinners still left him feeling lonely and anxious. Get ready to rethink what gratitude really is, stop pretending everything is "fine," and start using your hard times as a bridge to deeper confidence, connection, and purpose.
In This Episode You Will Learn
- Why the usual "good vibes only" gratitude advice actually keeps you stuck.
- How one question around a dinner table has made thousands of people open up and connect.
- How to turn your hardest memories into a source of meaning, empathy, and power.
- What stoicism really teaches about pain, obstacles, and emotional resilience.
- Ways to move from rumination and despair into appreciation and agency.
Resources + Links
- Get your copy of Chris's Book Gratitude Through Hard Times
- Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553
- Visit heathermonahan.com
- Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/
- Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW
- Get my first book Confidence Creator
Follow
- Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn
- Chris on Instagram & LinkedIn
Raw Description
<p>You’ve heard people say “just be grateful” a million times, but what happens when life is falling apart, you’re in real pain, and that kind of gratitude feels fake? In this episode, I sit down with USA Today’s “Gratitude Guru” Chris Schembra to talk about a completely different and honest approach to gratitude, one that doesn’t ignore your hardest moments, but <em>starts</em> with them. Chris shares how producing hit campaigns, dining with world-class leaders, and hosting intimate, high-end dinners still left him feeling lonely and anxious. Get ready to rethink what gratitude really is, stop pretending everything is “fine,” and start using your hard times as a bridge to deeper confidence, connection, and purpose.</p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>In This Episode You Will Learn</strong></p> <ul> <li> <p>Why the usual “good vibes only” gratitude advice actually keeps you stuck.</p> </li> <li> <p>How one question around a dinner table has made thousands of people open up and connect.</p> </li> <li> <p>How to turn your hardest memories into a source of meaning, empathy, and power.</p> </li> <li> <p>What stoicism really teaches about pain, obstacles, and emotional resilience.</p> </li> <li> <p>Ways to move from rumination and despair into appreciation and agency.</p> </li> </ul> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Check Out Our Sponsors:</strong></p> <ul> <li> <p><strong>Shopify</strong> - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at<a href="http://shopify.com/monahan"><u> shopify.com/monahan</u></a></p> </li> <li> <p><strong>Quince</strong> - Step into the holiday season with layers made to feel good and last from Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence</p> </li> <li> <p><strong>Timeline</strong> - Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at<a href="http://timeline.com/CONFIDENCE"> <u>timeline.com/CONFIDENCE</u></a>.</p> </li> <li> <p><strong>Northwest Registered Agent</strong> - protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit <a href="https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/confidencefree"><u>https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/confidencefree</u></a></p> </li> </ul> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Resources + Links</strong></p> <ul> <li> <p>Get your copy of Chris’s Book Gratitude Through Hard Times <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gratitude-Through-Hard-Times-positive/dp/B0B2HML7QS"><u>HERE</u></a>!</p> </li> <li> <p>Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553! </p> </li> <li> <p>Visit<a href="https://heathermonahan.com/"> <u>heathermonahan.com</u></a></p> </li> <li> <p>Sign up for my mailing list:<a href="https://heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/"> <u>heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/</u></a> </p> </li> <li> <p>Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here:<a href="https://overcomeyourvillains.com/"><u> https://overcomeyourvillains.com</u></a> </p> </li> <li> <p>If you haven't yet, get my first book<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Confidence-Creator-Heather-Monahan-ebook/dp/B07BN93649/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=1AI44DR0LDUKJ&dchild=1&keywords=confidence+creator+heather+monahan&qid=1635006623&sprefix=Confidence+Creator%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUExVjVROVBVNjBKOVk0JmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwMDcwOTkxMjBZRTdERFIwQ0hUSCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNDM0MTExMVkxWFBZWlc1U0tXWCZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU="><u> Confidence Creator</u></a></p> </li> </ul> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Follow</strong></p> <ul> <li> <p>Heather on<a href="https://www.instagram.com/heathermonahan/?hl=en"> <u>Instagram</u></a> &<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/theheathermonahan"> <u>LinkedIn</u></a></p> </li> </ul> <ul> <li>Chris on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/747club"><u>Instagram</u></a> & <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/schembra"><u>LinkedIn</u></a> </li> </ul>
Show Notes
You've heard people say "just be grateful" a million times, but what happens when life is falling apart, you're in real pain, and that kind of gratitude feels fake? In this episode, I sit down with USA Today's "Gratitude Guru" Chris Schembra to talk about a completely different and honest approach to gratitude, one that doesn't ignore your hardest moments, but starts with them. Chris shares how producing hit campaigns, dining with world-class leaders, and hosting intimate, high-end dinners still left him feeling lonely and anxious. Get ready to rethink what gratitude really is, stop pretending everything is "fine," and start using your hard times as a bridge to deeper confidence, connection, and purpose.
In This Episode You Will Learn
- Why the usual "good vibes only" gratitude advice actually keeps you stuck.
- How one question around a dinner table has made thousands of people open up and connect.
- How to turn your hardest memories into a source of meaning, empathy, and power.
- What stoicism really teaches about pain, obstacles, and emotional resilience.
- Ways to move from rumination and despair into appreciation and agency.
Resources + Links
- Get your copy of Chris's Book Gratitude Through Hard Times
- Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553
- Visit heathermonahan.com
- Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/
- Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW
- Get my first book Confidence Creator
Follow
- Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn
- Chris on Instagram & LinkedIn
Raw Description
<p>You’ve heard people say “just be grateful” a million times, but what happens when life is falling apart, you’re in real pain, and that kind of gratitude feels fake? In this episode, I sit down with USA Today’s “Gratitude Guru” Chris Schembra to talk about a completely different and honest approach to gratitude, one that doesn’t ignore your hardest moments, but <em>starts</em> with them. Chris shares how producing hit campaigns, dining with world-class leaders, and hosting intimate, high-end dinners still left him feeling lonely and anxious. Get ready to rethink what gratitude really is, stop pretending everything is “fine,” and start using your hard times as a bridge to deeper confidence, connection, and purpose.</p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>In This Episode You Will Learn</strong></p> <ul> <li> <p>Why the usual “good vibes only” gratitude advice actually keeps you stuck.</p> </li> <li> <p>How one question around a dinner table has made thousands of people open up and connect.</p> </li> <li> <p>How to turn your hardest memories into a source of meaning, empathy, and power.</p> </li> <li> <p>What stoicism really teaches about pain, obstacles, and emotional resilience.</p> </li> <li> <p>Ways to move from rumination and despair into appreciation and agency.</p> </li> </ul> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Check Out Our Sponsors:</strong></p> <ul> <li> <p><strong>Shopify</strong> - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at<a href="http://shopify.com/monahan"><u> shopify.com/monahan</u></a></p> </li> <li> <p><strong>Quince</strong> - Step into the holiday season with layers made to feel good and last from Quince. Go to quince.com/confidence</p> </li> <li> <p><strong>Timeline</strong> - Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at<a href="http://timeline.com/CONFIDENCE"> <u>timeline.com/CONFIDENCE</u></a>.</p> </li> <li> <p><strong>Northwest Registered Agent</strong> - protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit <a href="https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/confidencefree"><u>https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/confidencefree</u></a></p> </li> </ul> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Resources + Links</strong></p> <ul> <li> <p>Get your copy of Chris’s Book Gratitude Through Hard Times <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gratitude-Through-Hard-Times-positive/dp/B0B2HML7QS"><u>HERE</u></a>!</p> </li> <li> <p>Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553! </p> </li> <li> <p>Visit<a href="https://heathermonahan.com/"> <u>heathermonahan.com</u></a></p> </li> <li> <p>Sign up for my mailing list:<a href="https://heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/"> <u>heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/</u></a> </p> </li> <li> <p>Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here:<a href="https://overcomeyourvillains.com/"><u> https://overcomeyourvillains.com</u></a> </p> </li> <li> <p>If you haven't yet, get my first book<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Confidence-Creator-Heather-Monahan-ebook/dp/B07BN93649/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=1AI44DR0LDUKJ&dchild=1&keywords=confidence+creator+heather+monahan&qid=1635006623&sprefix=Confidence+Creator%2Caps%2C104&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUExVjVROVBVNjBKOVk0JmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwMDcwOTkxMjBZRTdERFIwQ0hUSCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNDM0MTExMVkxWFBZWlc1U0tXWCZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU="><u> Confidence Creator</u></a></p> </li> </ul> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Follow</strong></p> <ul> <li> <p>Heather on<a href="https://www.instagram.com/heathermonahan/?hl=en"> <u>Instagram</u></a> &<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/theheathermonahan"> <u>LinkedIn</u></a></p> </li> </ul> <ul> <li>Chris on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/747club"><u>Instagram</u></a> & <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/schembra"><u>LinkedIn</u></a> </li> </ul>