Why Mattering at Work Is the New Metric Leaders Must Track
Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Welcome back to Passion Struck! In today's episode, we're diving into the leadership metric that changes everything—mattering.
Have you ever put everything into your work only to feel invisible? Like your contributions didn't land, your ideas weren't valued, and your presence didn't really make a difference? That feeling—more than pay, promotions, or job security—is why people check out.
People don't quit jobs; they quit when they stop feeling like they matter. And yet, most leaders are focused on revenue, efficiency, and KPIs, while overlooking the one thing that truly drives results: people feeling seen, heard, and valued.
What You'll Learn in This Episode
- Why mattering is the most overlooked leadership metric
- The psychology behind why employees stay or leave
- The four dimensions of mattering and how leaders can apply them
- How great leaders create cultures where employees feel seen, heard, and valued
- Why high performers prioritize meaning over money
We'll explore research-backed insights, leadership case studies, and actionable takeaways to help you create a work environment where people don't just perform—they thrive.
Next Episode Preview
Next week, I'm sitting down with none other than Randy Blythe, the powerhouse lead singer of the band Lamb of God. We're talking about resilience, discipline, and what it takes to push through challenges most people would walk away from. And trust me, this conversation is going to hit hard in the best way possible. You won't want to miss it.
Resources
Download the Episode Worksheet
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Recommended Episodes
- The Mirage of Success: Why More Is Never Enough
- Jacob Morgan on the Vital Power of Leading With Vulnerability
- Coach Matt Doherty on How You Rebound From Life's Toughest Moments
- Emilia Elisabet Lahti on Embracing the Finnish Art of SISU
- How to Win the Fight for Your Soul
How to Connect with John
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<p>Welcome back to Passion Struck! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the leadership metric that changes everything—mattering.</p><p>Have you ever put everything into your work only to feel invisible? Like your contributions didn’t land, your ideas weren’t valued, and your presence didn’t really make a difference? That feeling—more than pay, promotions, or job security—is why people check out.</p><p>People don’t quit jobs; they quit when they stop feeling like they matter. And yet, most leaders are focused on revenue, efficiency, and KPIs, while overlooking the one thing that truly drives results: people feeling seen, heard, and valued.</p><p>Download the Episode Worksheet in the shownotes at: <a href="https://passionstruck.com/mattering-at-work-new-metric/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://passionstruck.com/mattering-at-work-new-metric/</a></p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn in This Episode:</strong></p><p>Why mattering is the most overlooked leadership metric</p><p>The psychology behind why employees stay or leave</p><p>The four dimensions of mattering and how leaders can apply them</p><p>How great leaders create cultures where employees feel seen, heard, and valued</p><p>Why high performers prioritize meaning over money</p><p>We’ll explore research-backed insights, leadership case studies, and actionable takeaways to help you create a work environment where people don’t just perform—they thrive.</p><p><strong>Next Episode Preview:</strong> <em>Next week, I’m sitting down </em> with none other than Randy Blythe, the powerhouse lead singer of the band Lamb of God. We're talking about resilience, discipline, and what it takes to push through challenges most people would walk away from. And trust me, this conversation is going to hit hard in the best way possible. You won't want to miss it. </p><p>How to Connect with John:</p><ul><li>Connect with John on Twitter at @John_RMiles and on Instagram at @John_R_Miles.</li><li>Subscribe to our main YouTube Channel <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a> and to our YouTube Clips Channel <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</li><li>For more insights and resources, visit <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">John's website</a>.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Want to explore where you stand on the path to becoming Passion Struck? Take our 20-question quiz on <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Passionstruck.com</a> today!</p><p>If you found value in this episode, share it with a friend and leave us a review to help spread the message of intentional living. Let’s bridge the gap between theory and action and live our lives with purpose!</p><p>Sponsors:</p><ul><li>Mint Mobile: Cut your wireless bill to 15 bucks a month at “MINT MOBILE dot com slash PASSION.”</li><li>Hims: Start your journey to regrowing hair with Hims. Get your free online visit at hims.com/PASSIONSTRUCK.</li><li>Quince: Discover luxury at affordable prices with Quince. Enjoy free shipping and 365-day returns at quince.com/PASSION.</li><li>Rosetta Stone it's the only way that allows you to Unlock 25 languages for life at “<a href="https://www.rosettastone.com/passionstruck" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">ROSETTASTONE.com/passionstruck.”</a></li><li>Prolon helps you Reset your health with 15% off at <a href="https://prolonlife.com/passionstruck" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">“ProlonLife.com/passionstruck.”</a></li></ul><p>For more information on advertisers and promo codes, visit Passion Struck Deals.</p><p>Join the Passion Struck Community! Sign up for the Live Intentionally newsletter, where I share exclusive content, actionable advice, and insights to help you ignite your purpose and live your most intentional life. Get access to practical exercises, inspiring stories, and tools designed to help you grow. Learn more and sign up <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><p>Speaking Engagements & Workshops: Are you looking to inspire your team, organization, or audience to take intentional action in their lives and careers? I’m available for keynote speaking, workshops, and leadership training on topics such as intentional living, resilience, leadership, and personal growth. Let’s work together to create transformational change. Learn more at <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">johnrmiles.com/speaking</a>.</p><p>Episode Starter Packs: With over 500 episodes, it can be overwhelming to know where to start. We’ve curated Episode Starter Packs based on key themes like leadership, mental health, and personal growth, making it easier for you to dive into the topics you care about. Check them out at <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">passionstruck.com/starterpacks</a>.</p><p>Catch More of Passion Struck:</p><ul><li><a href="https://passionstruck.com/the-mirage-of-success-why-more-is-never-enough/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Check My solo episode on The Mirage of Success: Why More Is Never Enough</a></li><li><a href="https://passionstruck.com/jacob-morgan-leading-with-vulnerability/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Catch My Episode with Jacob Morgan on the Vital Power of Leading With Vulnerability</a></li><li><a href="https://passionstruck.com/coach-matt-doherty-rebound-from-lifes-challenges/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Watch my interview with Coach Matt Doherty on How You Rebound From Life’s Toughest Moments</a></li><li><a href="https://passionstruck.com/emilia-elisabet-lahti-on-the-finnish-art-of-sisu/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Can't miss my episode with<strong> </strong>Emilia Elisabet Lahti on Embracing the Finnish Art of SISU</a></li><li><a href="https://passionstruck.com/win-the-fight-for-your-soul-and-why-it-matters/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">My solo episode on How to Win the Fight for Your Soul</a></li></ul><p>If you liked the show, please leave us a review—it only takes a moment and helps us reach more people! Don’t forget to include your Twitter or Instagram handle so we can thank you personally.</p><p>How to Connect with John:</p><p>Connect with John on Twitter at @John_RMiles and on Instagram at @John_R_Miles. Subscribe to our main YouTube Channel <a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/JohnRMiles" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a> and to our YouTube Clips Channel <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@passionstruckclips" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>. For more insights and resources, visit <a href="https://johnrmiles.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">John’s website</a>.</p><p>Want to explore where you stand on the path to becoming Passion Struck? Take our 20-question quiz on <a href="https://passionstruck.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Passionstruck.com</a> and find out today!</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>See Privacy Policy at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy</a> and California Privacy Notice at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info</a>.</p>
Show Notes
Welcome back to Passion Struck! In today's episode, we're diving into the leadership metric that changes everything—mattering.
Have you ever put everything into your work only to feel invisible? Like your contributions didn't land, your ideas weren't valued, and your presence didn't really make a difference? That feeling—more than pay, promotions, or job security—is why people check out.
People don't quit jobs; they quit when they stop feeling like they matter. And yet, most leaders are focused on revenue, efficiency, and KPIs, while overlooking the one thing that truly drives results: people feeling seen, heard, and valued.
What You'll Learn in This Episode
- Why mattering is the most overlooked leadership metric
- The psychology behind why employees stay or leave
- The four dimensions of mattering and how leaders can apply them
- How great leaders create cultures where employees feel seen, heard, and valued
- Why high performers prioritize meaning over money
We'll explore research-backed insights, leadership case studies, and actionable takeaways to help you create a work environment where people don't just perform—they thrive.
Next Episode Preview
Next week, I'm sitting down with none other than Randy Blythe, the powerhouse lead singer of the band Lamb of God. We're talking about resilience, discipline, and what it takes to push through challenges most people would walk away from. And trust me, this conversation is going to hit hard in the best way possible. You won't want to miss it.
Resources
Download the Episode Worksheet
20-Question Passion Struck Quiz
Recommended Episodes
- The Mirage of Success: Why More Is Never Enough
- Jacob Morgan on the Vital Power of Leading With Vulnerability
- Coach Matt Doherty on How You Rebound From Life's Toughest Moments
- Emilia Elisabet Lahti on Embracing the Finnish Art of SISU
- How to Win the Fight for Your Soul
How to Connect with John
Community & Newsletter
Sign up for the Live Intentionally newsletter — exclusive content, actionable advice, and insights to help you ignite your purpose and live your most intentional life.
Speaking Engagements & Workshops
Learn more at johnrmiles.com/speaking
Episode Starter Packs
With over 500 episodes, we've curated Episode Starter Packs based on key themes like leadership, mental health, and personal growth. Check them out.
If you found value in this episode, share it with a friend and leave us a review to help spread the message of intentional living. Let's bridge the gap between theory and action and live our lives with purpose!
If you liked the show, please leave us a review—it only takes a moment and helps us reach more people! Don't forget to include your Twitter or Instagram handle so we can thank you personally.
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Raw Description
<p>Welcome back to Passion Struck! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the leadership metric that changes everything—mattering.</p><p>Have you ever put everything into your work only to feel invisible? Like your contributions didn’t land, your ideas weren’t valued, and your presence didn’t really make a difference? That feeling—more than pay, promotions, or job security—is why people check out.</p><p>People don’t quit jobs; they quit when they stop feeling like they matter. And yet, most leaders are focused on revenue, efficiency, and KPIs, while overlooking the one thing that truly drives results: people feeling seen, heard, and valued.</p><p>Download the Episode Worksheet in the shownotes at: <a href="https://passionstruck.com/mattering-at-work-new-metric/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://passionstruck.com/mattering-at-work-new-metric/</a></p><p><strong>What You’ll Learn in This Episode:</strong></p><p>Why mattering is the most overlooked leadership metric</p><p>The psychology behind why employees stay or leave</p><p>The four dimensions of mattering and how leaders can apply them</p><p>How great leaders create cultures where employees feel seen, heard, and valued</p><p>Why high performers prioritize meaning over money</p><p>We’ll explore research-backed insights, leadership case studies, and actionable takeaways to help you create a work environment where people don’t just perform—they thrive.</p><p><strong>Next Episode Preview:</strong> <em>Next week, I’m sitting down </em> with none other than Randy Blythe, the powerhouse lead singer of the band Lamb of God. We're talking about resilience, discipline, and what it takes to push through challenges most people would walk away from. And trust me, this conversation is going to hit hard in the best way possible. You won't want to miss it. </p><p>How to Connect with John:</p><ul><li>Connect with John on Twitter at @John_RMiles and on Instagram at @John_R_Miles.</li><li>Subscribe to our main YouTube Channel <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a> and to our YouTube Clips Channel <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</li><li>For more insights and resources, visit <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">John's website</a>.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Want to explore where you stand on the path to becoming Passion Struck? Take our 20-question quiz on <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Passionstruck.com</a> today!</p><p>If you found value in this episode, share it with a friend and leave us a review to help spread the message of intentional living. Let’s bridge the gap between theory and action and live our lives with purpose!</p><p>Sponsors:</p><ul><li>Mint Mobile: Cut your wireless bill to 15 bucks a month at “MINT MOBILE dot com slash PASSION.”</li><li>Hims: Start your journey to regrowing hair with Hims. Get your free online visit at hims.com/PASSIONSTRUCK.</li><li>Quince: Discover luxury at affordable prices with Quince. Enjoy free shipping and 365-day returns at quince.com/PASSION.</li><li>Rosetta Stone it's the only way that allows you to Unlock 25 languages for life at “<a href="https://www.rosettastone.com/passionstruck" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">ROSETTASTONE.com/passionstruck.”</a></li><li>Prolon helps you Reset your health with 15% off at <a href="https://prolonlife.com/passionstruck" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">“ProlonLife.com/passionstruck.”</a></li></ul><p>For more information on advertisers and promo codes, visit Passion Struck Deals.</p><p>Join the Passion Struck Community! Sign up for the Live Intentionally newsletter, where I share exclusive content, actionable advice, and insights to help you ignite your purpose and live your most intentional life. Get access to practical exercises, inspiring stories, and tools designed to help you grow. Learn more and sign up <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>.</p><p>Speaking Engagements & Workshops: Are you looking to inspire your team, organization, or audience to take intentional action in their lives and careers? I’m available for keynote speaking, workshops, and leadership training on topics such as intentional living, resilience, leadership, and personal growth. Let’s work together to create transformational change. Learn more at <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">johnrmiles.com/speaking</a>.</p><p>Episode Starter Packs: With over 500 episodes, it can be overwhelming to know where to start. We’ve curated Episode Starter Packs based on key themes like leadership, mental health, and personal growth, making it easier for you to dive into the topics you care about. Check them out at <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/85feb7a6-7f1a-4066-9a1d-a29e70386613/shows/5ceb52e3-6ac2-4698-82cb-ce8214a5be04/episodes/7d803179-dfdc-4be0-a5e1-0c4ce8dec8ab/#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">passionstruck.com/starterpacks</a>.</p><p>Catch More of Passion Struck:</p><ul><li><a href="https://passionstruck.com/the-mirage-of-success-why-more-is-never-enough/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Check My solo episode on The Mirage of Success: Why More Is Never Enough</a></li><li><a href="https://passionstruck.com/jacob-morgan-leading-with-vulnerability/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Catch My Episode with Jacob Morgan on the Vital Power of Leading With Vulnerability</a></li><li><a href="https://passionstruck.com/coach-matt-doherty-rebound-from-lifes-challenges/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Watch my interview with Coach Matt Doherty on How You Rebound From Life’s Toughest Moments</a></li><li><a href="https://passionstruck.com/emilia-elisabet-lahti-on-the-finnish-art-of-sisu/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Can't miss my episode with<strong> </strong>Emilia Elisabet Lahti on Embracing the Finnish Art of SISU</a></li><li><a href="https://passionstruck.com/win-the-fight-for-your-soul-and-why-it-matters/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">My solo episode on How to Win the Fight for Your Soul</a></li></ul><p>If you liked the show, please leave us a review—it only takes a moment and helps us reach more people! Don’t forget to include your Twitter or Instagram handle so we can thank you personally.</p><p>How to Connect with John:</p><p>Connect with John on Twitter at @John_RMiles and on Instagram at @John_R_Miles. Subscribe to our main YouTube Channel <a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/JohnRMiles" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a> and to our YouTube Clips Channel <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@passionstruckclips" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>. For more insights and resources, visit <a href="https://johnrmiles.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">John’s website</a>.</p><p>Want to explore where you stand on the path to becoming Passion Struck? Take our 20-question quiz on <a href="https://passionstruck.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Passionstruck.com</a> and find out today!</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>See Privacy Policy at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy</a> and California Privacy Notice at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info</a>.</p>