Body Language Expert: When You Do This You Look like A Loser...(Sorry But You Do)! This Is The Real Reason You're Still Single!

<p>Can you make someone like you in seconds? Vanessa Van Edwards returns with the science-backed secrets of dating and likeability - tested in real-life dating scenarios for the very first time. </p>
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<p>Vanessa Van Edwards is the founder of Science of People, a platform dedicated to teaching the skills of communication, charisma, and leadership. She is the bestselling author of ‘Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication’.</p>
<p>00:00 Intro</p>
<p>03:02 How Important Is It to Master the Skill of Communication?</p>
<p>03:33 Are We Set in Our Ways? Is Charisma Genetic?</p>
<p>04:18 Different Types of Awkwardness in People</p>
<p>04:53 How to Make Friends – The 3 Core Friendship Values</p>
<p>06:37 How Do You Figure Out Your Core Friendship Values?</p>
<p>07:34 How Many People Has Vanessa Taught These Skills? And What Do They Want?</p>
<p>08:18 First Impressions</p>
<p>10:24 Profile Pictures</p>
<p>14:10 Add Cues for a Better First Impression</p>
<p>15:28 How Sunglasses Block Connection</p>
<p>16:21 More Good Cues for First Impressions</p>
<p>16:54 How Do I Make a Really Bad First Impression?</p>
<p>18:30 What We Need to Signal to Express Warmth</p>
<p>21:27 Breaking the Script</p>
<p>23:19 Master Communicators and the "Chemical Cocktail"</p>
<p>28:11 Online First Impressions</p>
<p>29:11 Be the Red Apple</p>
<p>30:17 How to Make an Impression on Zoom</p>
<p>32:08 The Story Toolbox</p>
<p>35:07 How Important Is Background on Zoom?</p>
<p>36:29 Where to Look on Zoom Calls</p>
<p>37:16 Date Experiments</p>
<p>43:09 Drivers and Passengers in Conversation</p>
<p>44:23 Micro Wins</p>
<p>45:05 Body Language That Indicates Attraction</p>
<p>49:35 Why Busyness Is Not a Mark of Success</p>
<p>51:16 The Jam Study – Too Many Choices</p>
<p>52:12 Prioritizing Self-Care Over Connection</p>
<p>53:08 Dating Checklists</p>
<p>54:23 Do We Get More Numb the More We Date?</p>
<p>55:32 Two Challenges If You're in a Funk or Feeling Lonely</p>
<p>58:26 Steve Being a Control Freak</p>
<p>01:00:14 Networking Events</p>
<p>01:00:55 Ads</p>
<p>01:09:20 Using the Word "Because" as a Leader</p>
<p>01:11:01 How Do We Know If Someone Likes Us?</p>
<p>01:14:20 What If You're Not a Funny Person?</p>
<p>01:16:09 Can You Learn to Be Funny?</p>
<p>01:16:57 Touch</p>
<p>01:18:10 Hacks for Being Funny</p>
<p>01:19:36 Channeling Other People</p>
<p>01:20:36 Microexpressions</p>
<p>01:21:37 Reading Fear in People's Faces</p>
<p>01:23:24 Seeing Disgust in People's Faces</p>
<p>01:25:09 How to Tell If Someone Is Angry Without Them Saying It</p>
<p>01:27:05 How to Tell When Someone Is Truly Happy</p>
<p>01:28:49 How to Tell If Someone Is Sad Even If They Don’t Say It</p>
<p>01:31:03 How to Tell If Someone Is Surprised</p>
<p>01:32:33 How to Tell If Someone Has Contempt Toward You</p>
<p>01:35:23 Can and Should We Change Our Personalities?</p>
<p>01:37:20 Steve's Personality Traits</p>
<p>01:38:49 Making Your New Partner Take a Personality Test</p>
<p>01:41:20 Conscientious People</p>
<p>01:57:05 Do Extroverts Have Better Immunity?</p>
<p>01:58:04 Personality Traits of Lifelong Singles</p>
<p>01:59:57 Should We Know Other People's Personality Types When We Meet Them?</p>
<p>02:01:38 Feeling Like the Vibe Is Off</p>
<p>02:03:31 What Are You Doing to Serve Others</p>
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